The Sovereign Men's Academy is a not for profit organization dedicated to creating superior men of substance and value for business stewardship, fatherhood, leadership and partnership.

Carefully developed training for growing future leaders, fathers, partners and friends with quality principles, virtues and action. Concentrating on male development, relationships, sex, growing up, cleaning your act up, profit, power & money as a force of good, becoming a powerful, creative, dynamic creator and force of good in this world.

We created the Sovereign Men's Academy so any man desiring to grow and evolved past present circumstances and behaviour can join regardless of their financial situation.

How many men live their lives (but don't tell you). And why we created the Sovereign Men's Academy.

• Big dreams and big ideas that never get acted on or launched.
• Sexless marriages that are numb and disconnected...just going through habitual patterns of disconnected relating, flatmates with marriage rings. 
• Stagnant bottom lines and class ceilings financially, not growing yourself to grow income.
• Act out sexually in dysfunctional ways, or hide their sexual desire to be a 'nice' man!
• Comfortably numb living - (safe but no purpose, adventure, fun).
• Watchers of entertainment rather than being the main actor in their extraordinary heroic life adventure.
• Living out of alignment - no purpose, no mission, living a life sold to us by others, trapped in what - your life or something sold to you by your parents, society, advertising.
• Shut down, numb, not following the beat of one's own drum, or following one's own bliss.
• EMASCULATED through man-bashing, playing 'good boy', fearful compliance to rules from bureaucrats and strong cultural change movements making havoc on the planet, afraid to think for self or push against others (ruled by desiring acceptance).
• Porn as an escape from true intimacy and connection, and fun in one's primary relationship.
• Trapped in the massive community of men with teenage minds, addicted to bravado showing, putting self up by putting others down, discussing and/or treating females disrespectfully, and showboating sexual conquests.
• Other numbing activities like cheap shows, TVs, booze, drugs to escape boredom or emotional pain.
• Emotionally stunted. Coming home at the end of the day, dumping stress in angry outbursts with the kids (for being kids) or the partner for 'whatever', unloading the emotions that can' be dealt with maturely, then retreating to TV, social media, work or anything else that can disconnect them from their aliveness and connectivity with family.
• Or they play best friend parent to their kids, not asking them to stand up.
• Playing small, worrying about what others think.
• Part of a social scene that is comfortable but not invigorating stimulates and grows you. 
• Leaving your potential on the table.
• Not enough energy or time to be in great physical shape. Pills and potions instead of movement, exercise, fresh air and great food.
• A mind that constantly thinks. Is on all the time, running negative emotions.
• Handing down the same dysfunctional patterns to their children.

Financially;

• Playing small.
• Status games - look at me and what I own (covering up vulnerabilities, low self-worth, and deep connection to substance and value).
• Shiney object chasers (afraid of commitment).
• Safe, tedious job - because I have to.
• Hiding behind money as the reason your partner should love you and never achieving real intimacy and connection.
• Leaking money instead of controlling it.
• Provider pressures (something no one talks about)...feeling you can't provide for your family properly or buying love - I deserve to be this way in the family because I bring in the most money.
• Won't stand out, be true to yourself and be different, in line with who you really are and what you are here to do. (yes, this has lots to do with financial outcomes).
• Not being on top of the game / or your game.
• Charging too little.
• Not standing in your power, getting what you deserve for giving what they deserve. 
• Achievement/financial/status desires are driven by deep low self-worth (Not tied to mission, meaning and purpose).
• Not enough leverage, reach, scale, passivity in income.
• Stress, emotions (positive and negative), self-doubt and other 'stories of the ego' limit brain performance, strategic thinking and powerful aligned actions.
• Playing victim (poor me) games through finances.
• Unconscious patterns of belief and behaviour undermining powerful actions that create $$$$$$$$$$$
• Dislike of selling due to unconscious blocks (selling is an act of love if you believe in your product)
• Unconscious blocks undermining financial performance
• Laziness in dealing with financial management, knowledge development.

Emotionally.

• Stunted and disconnected from themselves.
• No emotional intelligence. Stuck in the head, unable to feel, or controlled by dysfunctional emotions that paralyze their effectiveness and impact.
• Can't understand others, women, children, beloveds.
• Living our an archaic idea of what a man is - modelling action hero movies, following daddies with the same pattern, embraced by men with teens minds.
• Disconnected from their feminine side - living solely out of their masculine side. (Tough guy, disconnected, task orientated, achieve, do, action - unable to access compassion, empathy, sensitivity and action)
• Disconnected from their masculine, living out of their feminine side (appeasing, playing safe, going with the flow, compassion and kindness, they lost their inner killer, hunter, fighter, courage, mission.)
• Disconnected from mission, purpose and a noble cause, controlled by fear, self-doubt, playing small. 
• IF YOU WANT MORE HOT SEX AND LOVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND TO BECOME MORE ATTRACTIVE TO OTHERS, YOU MUST BE ABLE TO MOVE FROM YOUR MASCULINE TO FEMININE SIDE WITH EASE AND WISDOM FOR WHAT POLARITY IS REQUIRED FOR THE SITUATION.
• Numbing emotions they can't handle, ignoring emotions as they don't have the skills to deal with them.

Body

• Walking heads disconnected from the body, not knowing its needs or desires, and losing form, structure as a result. Shlelp that thing around between screens.
• Giving into age as though that is an excuse for not staying fit, slimmer, athletic and robust. 
• Keeping your body in good shape out of respect for yourself and your beloveds desires. 
• Pills, not movement and sun. 
• Low self-worth escaped via body status. 
• Over-exercising as an escape from emotional management or converting deep insecurities.
• Self-hate and self-sabotage one doughnut, one chip and one beer at a time. 
• Thinking and personal power undermined by a weak physical body.
• Stiff, locked up and tight, don't have the time as the excuse.

Sex & The Heart.

• Live out of some weird porn stereotype that does not build deep connected lovemaking (they are actors, after all).
• Emotionally stunted types can't feel their partners, needs, desires and heartfelt longings and make terrible lovers.
• Stopped having sex with their partner and masturbate to porn instead, or go to prostitutes rather than working through the blocks to intimacy and heartfelt connection.
• Struggle to have conversations with partners that matter regarding sex, sexual needs and desires.
• Self-esteem based on conquest, sex as egoic gratification rather than connection and intimacy.
• Stuck in lust without eros. 
  
  

What Members Get?

• 2.5-hour workshop every month (online).
• Exclusive members-only podcast.
• Accountability process to keep you accountable to your goals between sessions.
• Archetype discussion relating to male development, relationships, sex, growing up, cleaning your act up, profit & money, becoming a powerful, creative, dynamic creator and force of good in this world.
• Each workshop starts with a 1. centring practice 2. a goal-setting practice, 3. a self-accountability practice for goals committed to in the previous workshop, 4. archetypal stories to embody themes of growth, dysfunction and the developing male (based on members questions). 5 Q and A regarding the archetypal story. 6. Ending with an emotional mastery practice. 
• IMPORTANT. There is no need to share in this group. You can keep your privates private. Some people will share naturally, as that is who they are. There is no need to if you are not wired that way.
• Designed to evolve you from the unconscious where real and permanent change happens.
• Practices to help you clean up your act, manage emotions, create a greater connection
• Depth psychology focused
• The company of good men

Cost; Free or By Donation

 
We created the academy so any man desiring to grow and evolved past present circumstances and behaviour can join regardless of their financial situation.

However, it takes a lot of money to administer, manage and run the group. Your financial assistance would be greatly appreciated and acts as a service to this powerful cause. We suggest a $5, $10 or $20 a month pledge based on what you can easily afford.

If you are struggling financially, come for free. Check it out for free and pledge later if you need more certainty regarding the value of the Sovereign Men's Academy.

Check this before applying - and if you agree, proceed.

• Inner work is the priority, self-mastery the goal, changing ourselves, managing our minds, emotions and taking responsibility for what we create is the way.
• We focus on changing ourselves, not changing others, as the latter is typically a shadow projection. We become what we want to see in the world. We are the project.
• Growth, evolution, knowledge is what we seek.
• Wisdom is our goal, to end reactive behaviours and triggers so we can respond wisely to any situation, not from past programming, beliefs, wounding and traumas.
• We are goal and mission-focused, taking responsibility for transforming inner stumbling blocks, distractions, excuses that stand in the way or sabotage our mission and goals.
• Practice embodies knowledge. Knowledge that is not embodied is useless. Practice what we teach and learn daily.
• The developed man has equal access to all parts of one's psyche, the compassionate, empathetic and kind, the hunter, the fierce protector and killer, and knows when to use what with wisdom.
• Our goal is to become and produce men of substance and value who are better creators, fathers, lovers, partners and community members. Better men create better family environments, better cultures, better results in any area.
• We forgive the past and who we were, understanding we were products of our DNA/Conditioning while taking responsibility for what we create and who we are in the future.